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Preparing for Preschool – Your 3-Year-Old’s Milestones & Growth

  • Writer: Dr. Yuli
    Dr. Yuli
  • Apr 11
  • 2 min read

Your little one is officially three, and this stage is full of imagination, curiosity, and growing independence. Whether they’re engaging in pretend play, building fine motor skills, or expanding their vocabulary, your child is making incredible strides every day. If preschool is on the horizon, now is a great time to help them build the skills they’ll need for a smooth transition.


Fine Motor Skills: Strengthening Coordination

At three years old, children develop better hand control, making everyday tasks easier and more precise.


Milestones to Expect:

  • Holding and controlling crayons, markers, and paintbrushes.

  • Stacking blocks into taller towers.

  • Use child-safe scissors to make small cuts.

  • Beginning to dress themselves, such as pulling up pants or putting on shoes.


How to Help:

  • Provide plenty of opportunities for coloring, cutting, and building.

  • Let your child practice zipping, buttoning, and lacing shoes.

  • Encourage play with puzzles and threading beads to develop hand-eye coordination.

These small activities help build the strength and control needed for writing and self-care tasks in preschool.


Imaginative Play & Social Growth

Three-year-olds love pretend play—they may act out real-life scenarios, create their own stories, or use stuffed animals and dolls to express emotions. This type of play is important for social and emotional development.


Signs of Growth:

  • Playing pretend games like "teacher" or "doctor."

  • Engaging in simple turn-taking games with peers.

  • Expressing a range of emotions through stories and play.


How to Encourage Social Skills:

  • Join in their pretend play—ask questions and expand their stories.

  • Set up small playdates to help them practice sharing and cooperation.

  • Use books and storytelling to talk about emotions and friendship.

Imaginative play helps children make sense of the world and prepares them for interacting with peers in a school setting.


Language & Communication: Expanding Conversations

Your child’s vocabulary is growing rapidly! By three, they can form short sentences, ask questions, and follow conversations.


What to Expect:

  • Using 3-4 word sentences, like "I want more apples."

  • Asking lots of “why” and “what” questions to understand the world.

  • Following simple two-step directions, like "Pick up your toy and put it in the bin."


How to Support Language Development:

  • Read books together daily, asking them to point out objects and answer questions.

  • Engage in back-and-forth conversations, even if their responses are short.

  • Use songs, nursery rhymes, and storytelling to build vocabulary.

Stronger language skills will help your child express themselves clearly and engage with teachers and classmates in preschool.


Getting Ready for Preschool

If your child is preparing for preschool, you may be wondering what skills they need. Every child develops at their own pace, but encouraging independence, social skills, and communication will make the transition smoother.


📩 Want a free Preparing for Preschool Checklist? We’ve created a helpful guide to walk you through key skills your child will use in preschool!




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